Thursday, April 23, 2009

From a dear, dear friend.

I have a very dear friend. She and I first met when we were 12 years old, in 7th grade, at Mt. View Jr. High in Newman Lake, Washington. She has always been a wonderful friend, true in every way. I admire her strength and beauty, both inside and out. She is the kind of mother, wife and woman I would like to be. We do share one great difference. She is Mormon. I am not. Some may wonder how we can be such friends with such a difference. My only answer is; it is easy. We respect each other and learn from each other. Neither of us has the need to "be right". We love each just as we are. We both love God. And Jesus Christ is our Savior.

She and I were having a discussion last evening about religion and people and how some claim to be one way and yet act somewhat opposite to the teachings. She provided me with the following article and I found it very interesting. Although it came from "her church" - I fully agree with what it says. I guess that's part of what makes us such good friends. We can find value and substance and understand what and why each other believes what we believe. I hope you find value in the article, as well.

A respect for the diverse beliefs and unique contributions of all the world’s faiths is one of the hallmarks of Mormonism. From the earliest days of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Joseph Smith elevated the principle of religious liberty and tolerance: “We claim the privilege of worshiping Almighty God according to the dictates of our own conscience, and allow all men the same privilege, let them worship how, where, or what they may” (Articles of Faith 1:11).

In that same spirit, Church President Thomas S. Monson made a plea during general conference, a semiannual worldwide meeting, for more religious understanding: “I would encourage members of the Church wherever they may be to show kindness and respect for all people everywhere. The world in which we live is filled with diversity. We can and should demonstrate respect toward those whose beliefs differ from ours.” Latter-day Saints accept all sincere believers as equals in the pursuit of faith and in the great work of serving humanity.

Emphasizing God’s love for all people, not just those of one religion, President Dieter F. Uchtdorf of the First Presidency, the highest governing body of the Church, declared: “We honor and respect sincere souls from all religions, no matter where or when they lived, who have loved God, even without having the fullness of the gospel. We lift our voices in gratitude for their selflessness and courage. We embrace them as brothers and sisters, children of our Heavenly Father. … He hears the prayers of the humble and sincere of every nation, tongue, and people. He grants light to those who seek and honor Him and are willing to obey His commandments.”

The late Krister Stendahl, emeritus Lutheran Bishop of Stockholm and professor emeritus of Harvard Divinity School, established three rules for religious understanding: (1) When you are trying to understand another religion, you should ask the adherents of that religion and not its enemies; (2) don't compare your best to their worst; and (3) leave room for "holy envy" by finding elements in other faiths to emulate. These principles foster relationships between religions that build trust and lay the groundwork for charitable efforts.
The spiritual and physical needs of the world require goodwill and cooperation among different faiths. Each of them makes a valuable contribution to the larger community of believers.

In the words of early Church apostle Orson F. Whitney, “God is using more than one people for the accomplishment of his great and marvelous work. The Latter-day Saints cannot do it all. It is too vast, too arduous, for any one people.” Thus, members of the Church do not view fellow believers around the world as adversaries or competitors, but as partners in the many causes for good in the world.

For example, the Church has joined forces with Catholic Relief Services in a “collaboration of caring” that aids victims of famine and natural disaster. Furthermore, the Church worked with Islamic Relief Worldwide and the Islamic Society of Great Salt Lake to provide immediate humanitarian assistance in December 2004 to the tsunami-hit areas of Indonesia, Thailand and Sri Lanka.

It is important to note that interfaith cooperation does not require doctrinal compromise. Though the Church asserts its ecclesiastical independence and recognizes its doctrinal differences, this does not prevent it from partnering with other faiths in charitable projects. These efforts are based on universal values. A different interpretation of the atonement of Christ, for example, need not diminish the mandate of Christ to “love thy neighbor as thyself.” Therefore, it is necessary to maintain a separation between charitable efforts and doctrinal tenets, while at the same time sharing mutual concern for those in need. People of good faith do not need to have the exact same beliefs in order to accomplish great things in the service of their fellow human beings."

Monday, April 20, 2009

Another long update

The last couple of weekends have been pretty busy. Therefore, this will be a long one again.

The weekend after Easter Sara, my niece; Joey, my nephew and her little brother; and John, Sara's boyfriend, all came to visit. They got here Friday afternoon. I still had an hour left of work, so they went and surprised Patrick at the middle school and picked him up. He was SO excited. After they dropped Joey & Patrick off at the house, Sara and John went and picked Aaron & Emileigh up at the elementary school. Like Patrick, they were pretty surprised. I hadn't told any of the kids that she was coming :)

Friday we just hung out. They had a long drive and were pretty beat. Saturday we got up and had a lazy morning. Then we went to the Gilbert House, which is a children's museum. It was a free day there. It was pretty interesting. The "Gilbert" that they are referring to is the guy who invented the erector sets and other toys like that. He also made small appliances like hair dryers, fans. There is even a Gilbert brand telephone. Anyway, after the Gilbert house we walked over to the carosell. It was fun! Each of the kids got the golden ring so they got to ride 5 times! The carosell is one of the very, very few left in the world where the horses are all made of wood and each individually hand carved. What makes it even more special is that each of the horses has it's own personal story and "history".

After the park and such, we came home and had some lunch. Then we loaded up the car again and drove up to Portland to go to the Japanese garden and rose garden. The Japanese garden was just BEAUTIFUL! The rose garden didn't really have anything blooming, but it was still a pretty walk. Then, on the way out of the gardens there was a park, so we stopped and played there for a while. We didn't get home until after 8pm! It was a great day and the weather was so nice.

Sunday we went to the beach. We packed a yummy picnic lunch of ham & turkey sandwiches with cheese (we made them at the beach), various kinds of chips, bananas and a variety of snack-cakes for dessert and "walmart water" to drink. I just LOVE walmart water! (the bubbly, flavored stuff - the golden peach is my most favorite!). The tide was out so we got to see TONS of star fish and hermit crabs. One of the crabs was as big as a tarantuala! Sara took a picture of it...maybe she'll send me a copy :D

The sun was really warm, but the wind was blowing and was pretty chilly. So after we saw the "ocean life" and had our lunch we packed up. Sara wanted to check out the outlet mall, so we went there. She and John found some GREAT buys on things they had been looking all over for and hadn't been able to find, so the shopping trip was a success.

After the mall, we went to Depoe Bay to see the spouting water. The tide was still out pretty far, so they didn't get to see that :~( So...we headed home. It should have only taken us an hour, but ended up taking 2 because of traffic... I don't think I will EVER get used to that! Southeastern Idaho spoiled me as far as traffic is concerned!

Monday was "back to work" and back to Idaho for Sara, Joey & John. It was really nice though, to have them here. I miss them so much! And I am especially glad that the weather cooperated with us - mostly.

April 28 -

I had saved the above post as a draft because I wanted to add some pictures and check my spelling. Since so many days have gone by, I guess I'll just keep going...

One of the things Darren was hoping to accomplish when Sara & John came was to get some helpful hints from John. He is a machinist and Darren has some equipment that he has been teaching himself to use. John was able to help him with some tricks for his lathe but the mill wasn't here yet. So, Darren wasn't able to pick John's brain about that. The bummer is that the mill got to our house yesterday. If they'd have come a week later... but, then again, the weather isn't nearly as nice this week, so I'm happy they came when they did!

Other than that the only other "exciting" thing has been my ears :^( I have had the worst itching in my ears for over a year now. Every time it gets bad enough to go to the doctor and I decide to make an appointment, it gets better so I don't go. A couple months ago it was really bad and my ears were swelling up and I couldn't hear, so I went to the clinic. We don't have insurance and we didn't have a regular doc at the time so... Anyway, the clinic doc said I had "swimmer's ear" and prescribed an antibiotic. My ears felt better for about 2 weeks, then started itching again. Last week they were so bad that I thought the itching would literally drive me mad. A parent at the school mentioned a PA that was taking new patients and lucky for us, she agreed to take on our family. I made an appointment. She did a prelimanary test and said that it looked like it might be some sort of yeast infection. She prescribed a medicine w/ steriod and said she'd send the swab into the lab for further tests. My ears did NOT feel better. My left ear swelled even further and the pain was excruciating! By Monday, with the help of some left-over vicadin the pain had subsided but not the itching. While I was at work the doc called to tell me that I did not have a yeast infection, but I had the "mersa virus" -- a highly resistant virus, which is why the original anitbiotic didn't work. She prescribed a new oral antibiotic and an ear drop one with the medicine along with a steriod. The 2 prescriptions totalled almost $150 !! Like I said, no insurance... Anyway, I asked the pharmasist if I could get away with just the oral one (it was only $15) and she said - "No way!!" -- the mersa virus, I guess is pretty serious...

So...the question of the day - - how did I get such a yucky virus in my ears??? I am thankful to finally have a doc who will go the extra mile and actually figure out what is wrong. And I hope that our $150 is well-spent and that my ears will FINALLY quit itching!

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Journal for me - looonnngg blog for you :)

Easter

We left Oregon on Friday afternoon. One of many blessings working for a Christian school is that you get religious holidays off. We did have school for the first half of Good Friday so that all of the students could attend Good Friday services together. We also got Easter Monday off. That is what gave me the time to head north.

We didn’t get as early of a start as I had hoped, as usual. We got into Liberty Lake, which is just east of Spokane, at around 10pm. (We stayed with Karen, one of my best girlfriends from junior high.) The drive was good, no troubles. We stopped along the way for snacks and potty breaks. The kids had brought books and dvd’s for the portable dvd player (my dad bought it for them a couple of years ago when we took a trip to Montana to meet my sister) which kept them entertained when they got tired of talking or singing with the radio.

We got in, had some pizza and then off to bed. Karen and I stayed awake talking until after 3am. Of course, the kids were up bright and early to wake me up at about 7. We got dressed - it was raining pretty hard. Of course, Patrick had to rub it in that I told him he didn’t need to bring his umbrella! Anyway, we went to an Easter egg hunt put on by Karen’s church. It was over nearly before it started. During the drive Patrick had overheard me on the phone talking to my dad and then one of my cousins who lives in Spokane. He got all excited thinking Grampa was going to meet us there. I told him “no”, that if Grampa could afford to go to Aunt Louise’s house (the purpose of the trip) that he could have come to Oregon and we’d have spent Easter at home. So, anyway, after the Easter egg hunt, we headed up to my aunt’s house in Rathdrum, Idaho. As we pulled into her yard, Patrick noticed a white car with Idaho plates – no surprise, we were in Idaho, after-all. Then he looked again and shouted “GRAMPA! Grampa IS here!”. I started laughing and said, yes, he is here. The kids all began climbing over each other trying to be the first out of the car. They were SO excited!

After a few hours visiting there, we all went into Spokane to visit my cousin, Darcy. We had a nice visit with her and her daughter Christine. It was bitter-sweet. It was our first visit since my aunt Nancy (Darcy’s mom) passed away. The mood was melancholy, but we enjoyed our visit and we were all happy to see each other. After spending most of the afternoon there, it was late and the kids (and I) were getting pretty sleepy. We said our good-byes and headed back to Louise’s, where my dad was staying.

Easter we spent up at Louise’s, as well. Much of the family came. We had a wonderful meal with ham, turkey, baked beans and all kinds of salads and desserts. It was a special time with family. It was nice to see everyone. Most I hadn’t seen since my mom passed away 5 years ago (just yesterday, it seems).

Monday we headed back home. (of course, without taking any pictures :( I am such a slacker!) We stopped at a road-side fresh fruit & veggie market along the way. We got some fresh apples, home-made ice cream and fresh cut asparagus - YUMMY! We arrived home around 6pm. Darren had cleaned the kitchen for me - a BIG thank you to him! I certainly didn’t expect that.

Overall we had a very nice trip. The kids got to spend time with cousins and play in the woods and see family they hadn’t seen in “forever”, as did I. We were able to see my dad. The family was together, almost like “old times”. Bitter-sweet. Good to be together, missing those who have passed on. Family is precious. I am so very thankful for the caring, loving, accepting family that I have been blessed with.

I am happy for the time I was able to spend with my family, so dear. I am happy to be home with my husband and to sleep in my own bed. If only we could combine the two worlds...

Monday, April 6, 2009

A Glorious Day

The kids and I had a pretty nice weekend. Although I have been battling really bad ear pain and severe headaches, we still managed to have a pleasant time thanks to some "magic pills" (prescribed, of course) Saturday Emi and I did a tiny bit of shopping. I saw a commercial for Ross and they were having a shoe sale. Now, I really don't need any more shoes, but it appeared they had some sandals that I would really like, so... as you'd expect, the ones on tv were not in the store. I did find one pair, however, that I had been looking for all last spring and into the summer. There was a specific style I wanted to wear with my wedding dress - and I could not find them ANYWHERE. Just my luck, Ross had the exact type I had been looking for last year! CRAZY!! I went ahead and bought them, because I hope I'll get to wear my dress again some time :) They also had another pair in a style that I have loved and worn for many, many, many years. I did not want to spend a ton of money, so I just bought the 2 pairs of sandals and a birthday gift for my niece - something that Emi noticed on our way to the check stand. I know she'll LOVE it. I'm not gonna' say what it is, just in case she reads this, so... ha ha - she'll have to wait!

After Ross, it was off to the grocery store then back home. Darren's brothers came over with their boys, so Emi and I were pretty much left out of the rest of the after noon. We did a little laundry and painted her doggy piggy bank that she got quite some time ago. Then she helped me make a snack-type dinner for everyone. I made some chicken for the "big boys" and they must have really like it because Reed asked for the recipe and they ate every last piece!

Sunday was a warm and beautiful day. The kids were excited to have such a nice day and decided they did not want to go to church. I relented and we skipped. I told them, though, that if we weren't going to go to church, we were going to enjoy the beatiful day that God gave us and get the yard cleaned up. So, that's what we did. I wanted to get to the grocery store to buy dinner for the week before the crowds, so I had them clean up all their toys inside and put away all the laundry they didn't get put away yesterday, while I was gone. When I came back home, we got to work in the yard. I am wishing I'd have taken some "before" pictures so you could better appreciate how much we got done. I will post some "after" pictures later today. ( I don't have any and I'm at work right now )

We had a great day working together! The kids started to get bored with it around 4, so we all took a break. I made some yummy dinner and then, later after it started cooling off, we went back out and finished up the main part of what we were working on. I don't know that they appreciated how hard they worked and what a difference it made, but I think they will notice it when they come home from school this afternoon and see how nice it really looks. We still have a LOT to do, and we'll probably work on it a little bit each afternoon while it is still nice out. I know they will moan about it now - but when they are older I know they will remember, fondly, working together. I know, for myself, that I remember and miss and am so thankful for those times like that I was able to spend with my mom...

Josh has been cleaning and fixing up the loft. It was such a nice day, once he got done with some insulating and other stuff, he came out and joined in the yard work. He didn't actually help us in our yard area, but around the burn barrel and burn pile. The "friends" that were staying with us over the winter left a pretty terrible mess that has blown all over the place. The kids and I spent several hours cleaning up their mess a few weeks ago when the weather cleared for a bit, but there was still much to do. The wind had also sent a bunch of campaign signs around the yard that needed to be picked up and re-stacked. Anyway, Josh worked on that area a bit and got the burnables all piled up again. After the kids went to bed he lit it up and the 3 of us (Josh, Darren and I) sat around the "bon fire" and enjoyed the evening for an hour or so. It was a nice relaxing ending to a long hard day.

So - it's back to the grind. My break is over. Now it's time to get lunch set up for the students and do my recess duty for the next 2 hours. fun, fun, fun.... not!

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